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For Children · Lesson 9 · B. Abraham and His Family — Genesis 12–36

Abraham Lets Lot Choose First

Read together in your Bible: Genesis 13 (King James Version)

Memory Verse — Hide It in Your Heart
“And Abram said unto Lot, Let there be no strife, I pray thee, between me and thee, and between my herdmen and thy herdmen; for we be brethren.”
Genesis 13:8 · KJV

Say it together morning and night until you know it by heart — these are the very words of God.

The Story

Abram came back from Egypt to the land of Canaan, and he was very rich in cattle, silver, and gold. He travelled back to Bethel, to the place where he had built an altar before, and there he called on the name of the LORD again. His nephew Lot was still with him, and Lot also had flocks, herds, and tents of his own.

Soon there was a problem. The land could not hold both families and all their animals. Abram’s herdmen and Lot’s herdmen began to argue about the grass and water for the animals. Other peoples — the Canaanites and the Perizzites — lived in the land too, so the arguing was not a good witness.

Abram could have pushed to get the best land for himself. After all, he was the uncle, he was older, and God had promised the land to him. Instead, Abram did something kind and unselfish. He told Lot there should be no strife between them or their herdmen, because they were family. Then he let Lot choose first: if Lot went one way, Abram would gladly go the other way.

Lot lifted up his eyes and looked over the plain of Jordan. It was well watered everywhere, green like the garden of the LORD and like the rich land of Egypt. So Lot chose the whole plain of Jordan for himself and travelled east. He pitched his tent toward Sodom — and the men of Sodom were very wicked sinners against the LORD. Abram stayed in the land of Canaan.

After Lot had gone, God spoke to Abram again. God told him to lift up his eyes and look north, south, east, and west, because all the land he could see would belong to Abram and his family forever. This is what God said: "For all the land which thou seest, to thee will I give it, and to thy seed for ever." God promised that Abram’s seed — his descendants — would be as many as the dust of the earth. Then God added: "Arise, walk through the land", in the length of it and in the breadth of it.

Abram did not lose anything by being unselfish. He moved his tent to the plain of Mamre in Hebron, and there he built another altar to the LORD who had blessed him.

The Big Truth

Abraham was kind and unselfish, and God blessed him.

What We Learn

  1. Abram was kind and unselfish: he let Lot choose first instead of arguing for the best land.
  2. God blessed Abram after he made peace — being kind never really makes us lose.
  3. We can choose peace too: letting others go first is a happy way to follow God.

Talk About It

  1. Why did Abram’s and Lot’s herdmen argue? What did Abram do to stop the arguing?
  2. Lot chose the land that looked best. How did his choice turn out to be dangerous?
  3. When is it hard for you to let someone else choose first? What could you do this week?

Fun to Do

Make a Choosing-First Game! Put three snacks or three small toys in a row. Let a brother, sister, or friend choose first — and you take what is left with a happy heart, just like Abram. Then swap turns. At the end, say the memory verse together and thank God for teaching us to make peace.

Let’s Pray

Dear God, help me to be kind and unselfish like Abram, and to choose peace instead of arguing. Thank You for blessing me so much. Amen.

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